SESSIONS FOR INDIVIDUALS WHO HAVE PROBLEMS
Over the last 20 years I’ve had experience working with most situations and typical problems that people have in sex. I probably already have a well-worked and tested solution for your situation.
My approach is to teach you a better practice, rather than to focus on it as therapy. We go with the simple idea that you practice something differently you will get a better result. In my experience most people have problems in sex not because they need healing but because they have been given a poor practice.
Couples:
No Sex Because of Kids
No Time For Sex
No Energy For Sex
Sex Life Has Fizzled Out
Need to Reconnect After Problems
Restarting Sex After A Break
Sex With Health Problems
Sex in Older Age
Men:
Problems With Erection
No Desire For Partner
Premature Ejaculation
Performance Anxiety
Lack of Experience
Excessive Sex Drive
Prolonging Sex
Women:
Painful Sex
Vaginismus / Contraction
Low Desire / Libido
Problems With Arousal
Lack of Feeling / Sensitivity
Pressure to Orgasm
Worries About Orgasm
Self-Consciousness in Sex
Lack of Sexual Experience
Lack of Confidence in Sex
Being in Your Head in Sex
Body Image Problems in Sex
Sex After Menopause
You can read more in detail about each situation, including how to resolve it, on my online teaching platform:
THE SITUATIONS I CAN HELP WITH:
MY STYLE
All my sessions with clients are:
Practical
We focus only on what you actually need to do and to know, no waffle.
Realistic
What is practical in everyday busy life?
Relatable
I work to be on your frequency and speak your language.
Personalised
I thoroughly understand your situation and work out what’s most important to teach to you specifically.
Respectful
I only suggest and I will try to understand any doubts or obstacles and find an even better approach for you.
FORMATS
I work in two formats: practical workshops or consultations.
PRACTICAL WORKSHOP
This is a special method in my practice that I have developed over the nearly 20 years of my work with clients.
It is a much more effective method than a normal talking consultation. It is hard to learn about sex by talking – sex has to be learned by practice and by feeling. With this unique method I am able to deliver strong results very quickly.
What is involved in the workshop
When working with a couple, a workshop involves partners engaging physically with each other, doing activities under my guidance.
When working with an individual this is more limited.
However we can still include activities in your work:
- Guided visualisations to experience in your body
- Guided imagining of sex
- Self touch if appropriate to the topic.
Through these activities you can integrate practices into your body memory.
The activities can be done in privacy – if you turn off the video and I talk to you only through the audiolink while you practice.
How the workshop typically goes
Each workshop is designed specifically for your unique situation.
We start with the discussion of your situation, your sex life and your aims and needs.
I work out what is most important to teach you and suggest to you your unique sequence of the workshop.
We start with explanation from me on the main themes.
You then progress to techniques / activities with my guidance.
There is a smooth flow of explanation – practice – feedback – next discussion.
I remain flexible to keep focusing the workshop on your needs.
All activities are at your comfort level and always pre-discussed.
Online
All workshops for individuals take place online.
CONSULTATION
Not everyone is comfortable with practical activities.
This format is a conversation-only session, with no activities.
We start with the discussion of your situation, your sex life and your aims and needs.
I work out what is most important to teach you and we cover the topics and techniques within the consultation.
Online
All consultations take place online